本文为2008年江苏高考英语作文“做好的倾听者”

Become a Better Listener
提纲
1．做个好的倾听者是非常重要的。有效地倾听是……
2．善于倾听的好处。
3．我们怎样做才能成为一个好的倾听者。

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It is quite important to be a good listener. Effective listening is more than simply avoiding the bad habit of interrupting others while they are speaking. It’s being content to listen to the entire thought of someone rather than waiting impatiently for your chance to respond.

做一个好的倾听者非常重要，有效的倾听要比那些随意打断别人说话的坏习惯更能应对自如。倾听能够让你更为深入的了解说话的人的整体思想，而不是像急性子人，不深入了解内容只知其一，甚至在理解上就违背说话人的原意。
Slowing down your responses and becoming a better listener aids you in becoming a more amiable person. As you wait for the person you are communicating with to finish, as you simply listen more intently to what is being said, you will feel more relaxed, and so will the people you are talking to. Not only will being a better listener make you a more patient person(Joozone's Note:有耐心的人), but it will also improve your relationship with others because everyone loves to talk to someone who truly listens to what they are saying. From joozone.com

放下姿态做一个善于倾听的人可以帮助您成为一个受人尊敬、和蔼可亲的人。当您认真倾听完诉说者的所有内容，当您全神贯注的倾听别人的诉说时.，你将变的尤为放松，同时诉说者也会相当放松。当您作为一个好的倾听者的时候，您也会成为一个极具耐心的人；且您的人际关系也会变的相当融洽。因为每个人都愿意和真正想听他们心里话的人倾诉。
It is quite easy for you to be a better listener. As long as you for get yourself and imagine yourself in the speaker’s experience to understand the emotion behind the words, and then give your appropriate responses slowly, you will be an endeared listener.

当然，做一个好的倾听者也是相当容易的。您只需要站在倾诉者的立场，从背后了解倾诉者字里行间的感情，同时慢慢的学习并流露一些应对的措施（实际意思就是：要与倾诉者保持互动），这样您就会成为一位非常优秀的倾听者。

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