11. Send a card for no reason--another cliché? Maybe, but everyone likes to receive a nice "I love you" or "I miss you" notes every once in a while. 　　

    没什么缘由地送张卡片——又很老套吗？不过谁不喜欢时不时地收到些“我爱你”，“我想你”之类的卡片呢？　　

    12. Listen--this could be the most important one ever, but note that you should listen with empathy and not just hear what they are saying; you should get involved. 　

    聆听——这非常重要，但注意聆听的时候你应该全情投入并参与其中，而不仅仅只是听到了对方说的话。　

    13. Encourage--positive support and being there for one another is also very important; seek their support and give them yours and be generous! 　　

    鼓励——彼此支持是非常重要的。向对方寻求支持并慷慨地给予对方支持！　　

    14. Do it his or her way--sometimes; you need to do things their way just to show how much you love them and respect their feelings. 　　

    按照对方喜欢的方式行事——有时候，你可以按照对方喜欢的方式行事，并以此来传达你对伴侣的爱恋和尊重。　　

    15. Know his or her needs--what good is a spouse if he/she does not know the needs of their significant others? This should be your primary concern! 　　

    知道对方的需求——如果不知道另一半的需要，那还算什么好伴侣？这一点是首先需要留心的。

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