18.率先提供给别人解决问题的办法。

    19.Give thanks for them in your session of gratitude.

    19.向别人致谢，用以感恩的心。

    20.Mention their names in your prayer.

    20.祷告的时候提到他们的名字。

    21.Talk with them about their life.

    21.与人攀谈时，可以聊聊关于他的生活。

    22.Ask them specific questions about things they care about. They will realize that you care enough to remember their facts.

    22.对于别人关心的事情，具体询问。他们会体感觉到你的体恤。

    23.Give them something precious you have. Time is a good candidate.

    23.与别人分享对你来说珍贵的东西。时间是最好的候选者。

    24.Go eat with them. Even better, treat them.

    24.一同吃饭。当然，最好不过的，是自己来下厨招待。

    25.When you meet them, don't look at your watch as if you have something more important to do.

    25.与别人相处时，不要总是看表。会使人误解你有很重要的事情去做。

    26.When you talk to them, don't look over their shoulder as if you are looking for someone more important to talk to.

    26.与人说话，不要看着别人的肩膀。那使你看上去很急于结束对话。

    27.Send them quick tips or articles you just found which may benefit them.

    27.给别人介绍好的引荐或文章。

    28.Message them encouraging words or quotes.

    28.发短信，多写一些鼓舞的文字或引用。

    29.Lend them the best books or DVDs you have.

    29.如果有的话，借给别人你最喜爱的书籍或电影。

    30.Talk to them about how you like your other friends. They will think that you may talk the same way about them.

    30.与人交谈，常说说朋友的好话。那样，在他的背后，也会认为你会如此谈论他。

    31.Don't talk negatively to them about how you don't like your other friends. They will think that you may also talk the same way about them.

    31.不要背地里讲朋友的坏话。这样，在他的背后，说到他的时候，他也会这么认为。

    32.Occasionally mention their names in your conversation with them.

    32.交谈中，偶尔提到对方的名字。

    33.Be creative to give them small surprises every now and then.

    33.时常给别人富有创造力的小小惊喜。