what do you think about divorce 你怎样看待离婚

离婚就是婚姻里的一扇后门，实在没路走了，只能选择走这道门出来了。你说是吗？www.joozone.com提供
What do you think about divorce ?

你怎样看待离婚？

不知道为什么，我身边有很多人都离婚了，还有正在闹离婚的，使得我觉得婚姻是可怕的，以前对婚姻的憧憬也变的脆弱不敢轻易碰触，甚至不知道自己是不是也该步入婚烟的殿堂！

现在人大多是自由恋爱而结合的，那在结婚前应该很了解了，也应该有很多共同语言，那为什么现在夫妻的感情会如此脆弱，动不动就离婚了呢？难道这就是所谓的新人类对婚姻的态度吗？看着不断升高的离婚率，我实在是想不明白，所以想听听大家的意见

我的同学在大学时就和他的男友同居了，毕业了有了自己的工作后，结成美好姻缘，我们都很羡慕，说是一对喜鸳鸯。可是，就在国庆节的前夕，她来电告诉我：“她摆脱了枷锁，离婚了”这对我来说真是不可思议。。我问她：“原因是什么？”她告诉我：“她爱人和她一个屋檐下生活了4年，却说从来没有爱过她。。。”他彻夜不归，在外面花天酒地。。。是他提出的离婚。。我在一气之下，就和他分手了。。“我真是蒙了，这难道又是婚姻的变奏曲吗？我对婚姻的生命的价值疑惑了，更让我坚定独立的决心。

我想离婚时存在两个因素：

如果是人本身的道德问题 人品问题 那没办法

如果是两个人的感情问题 应该自己好好的去解决 产生问题的原因是什么?我想能结婚 说明两个人很多地方都还是蛮合适的 能结婚2个人当初也应该考滤清楚的.....  离婚 分手 那是弱者逃避问题的方式....

我用麻木的心情去探索离婚的秘密：既然是婚姻有很多种，那么维系婚姻的理由也各不相同；有的是因为要承担责任，有的是出于道德，还有的是碍于面子，也有的是因为习惯

从社会现象看有的夫妻生活实在是味同嚼蜡，了无生机，依然维持着法律上的夫妻关系；

有的夫妻早已各有各的情人，家外有家，，依然维持着法律上的夫妻关系；

有的夫妻永不休止地互相摧残，互相煎熬，却依然不开始新的感情生活；

但是有的人是喜新厌旧。追求时尚的浪漫的婚姻；没有道义和责任，唯一想的都是自己。用金钱来买自己的婚姻。我可以说：“这样的人不值你去爱，请你不要上的他的戝船，要不会后悔一生。

但是，我还是糊涂。因为，社会上的离婚率上升的惊人，到底是男方逼女方？还是女方逼男方？不过，我也想知道，人在结婚的时候的初衷到底是为了什么？真的只为完成任务吗？等到离婚那天才说是因为感情上有问题，性格不合。这是什么理由？人与人之间哪有说谁和谁的性格是完全相同的呢？没有感情还天天在一起？呵，可笑。人啊，是因为贪婪？好奇？图新鲜？还是欲求不满啊？

有的人说：离婚就是婚姻里的一扇后门，实在没路走了，只能选择走这道门出来了。我还是不理解这其中的深奥，我只能祝大家在感情的路上走好,千万无跌倒啊.

How do you treat the divorce?

Don't know why, I nearby the many peoples all divorced, still having just make the divorce of, make me feel that marriage is terrible, dared not to the flimsiness that the marriage imagined to also change to touch easily before, even not know whether oneself also should follow the hall of the smoke of  or not!

Now person mostly free love and combine of, that before matrimony should understand very much, also should have a lot of common languages, that why the affection of the husband and wife of now would be thus weak, divorcing on every occasion?Difficult way is this an attitude of so-called New appointee to marriage?The divorce rate that looking at to go up continuously, I am really not understand, so want to hear the opinion of everyone

My classmate at university cohabitted with his male friend, after graduating to have own work, become the fine opportunity, we all envy very much, say that is a rightness of pleased mandarin ducks.But, nodal in the great occasion of nation of night before last, she telephones to tell me:" She got away from the fetter, divorcing" this is really unimaginable to me..I ask her:" What is the reason?" She tells me:" She loves to live for 4 years with her  under the eaves, but say that did not love her from the beginning..." He does not return all night, in the outside world of wine and women...It is the divorce that he put forward..I at in a pet, broke up with him.." I am really to receive, this does the difficult way change to play the song hymeneally again?I puzzled to the value of the life of the marriage, even letting I firm and independent decision.

Exist two factors when I want to divorce:

If is the person's  question of ethics personal character problem that have no way

If is what is the reason that two persons'  affection problem oneself should resolve to produce the problem thoroughly?I think that it can get married to explain that two personal lot of places all still pretty fit can get married 2 persons and also should test the  to know at the beginning of..... The divorce breaks up that is a way that evades the problem....

I use the benumbed mood to investigate the secret of the divorce:Since is the marriage contain a lot of kinds, the reason that support the marriage so is also each not same;Have plenty of because to undertake the responsibility, have plenty of to proceed from the morals, still have plenty of due to the face, also have plenty of because of the habit

See some husband and wife life is really insipid from the social phenomena, have no source of vitality, maintain the juridical bed and board still;

Some husband and wife are already each to have each lover, there is house outside the house,, maintain the juridical bed and board still;

Some husband and wife stop the ground never to trample upon each other, enduring long hardship each other, but still not start the new affection life;

But the certain person is to like the new and dislike the old.Pursue romantic marriage of the vogue;Have no righteous and responsibilities, unique think of is all an oneself.Buy own marriage with the money.I can say:" Such person is unworthy you love, his ship of  that ask you to do not ascend, want will not regret the whole life.

But, I am still careless.Because, does the divorce rate of the society rise astonishing, is it the male square that force the bride's side exactly?Or does the bride's side force the male square?However, I also want to know, person at the time of get married of original intention exactly is for the sake of what?Really and only for complete the mission?Wait until to divorce that genius to say is because the affection has problems up, incompatibility of personality.What reason is this?Interpersonal which say who similar to the whose personality is complete?Still have no affection every day together?oh , Funny.Person, is because of greed?Very strange?Is the diagram fresh?Still try to the disaffection?

Some persons say:The divorce is a back door in the marriage, really having no road to walk, only can choose to walk this came out.I still ignore to solve this among them abstruse, I can wish everyone only walk in the on the road of affection good, the ten million did not fall down